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A few years ago, Mark Albion, a former Harvard Business School professor and one of the true bright lights in the passion-at-work (and life) movement, fired out his e-newsletter. As usual, his piece was filled with great quotes ("People want to work for a cause, not for a living." -- Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, author of Flow) and smart connections.
But it was the newsletter's headline that caught my eye: "Are You Living a Deferred Life?"
What a great question. For decades, the life cycle of the American workforce went something like this: Graduate from school, apply for work at brand-name companies, angle for promotions, sacrifice the social for the career, probably get put out to pasture late in the career, think about retirement, collect the gold watch, hit the links or the tennis court.
Sorry, but that sounds mighty dreary to me. (And I'm not even mentioning those unfortunate souls who had their plans derailed by looted pensions.) So much of one's psychological and spiritual energy went into planning for later, postponing dreams, fulfilling obligations.
My wife and I used to talk about "the treadmill," our term for the things we had to do in our lives just to keep our lifestyle going. These jobs, this income level. If either slowed, we knew we could fall off the treadmill. But it wasn't emotionally sustainable. I vividly remember one conversation in which my wife asked if she could afford to quit her consulting job, which was burning her out and leaving her empty. "If we can't, we'll sell our house. It's just a thing," I replied – and then marveled that the words could have left my lips.
We've traded to a smaller house now, and my wife teaches school. In the evenings, she gushes about the things she did with her students that day. We decided not to defer our life. We decided to get off the treadmill. (By the way, we don't miss the space and extra maintenance!)
Each month, I meet people who have decided to take control of their own destinies in ways small and large. They are turning their passions into realities even if it means living smaller to make it happen. There are many routes to success on this path – real success, as in career joy and life happiness.
Is something stopping you?
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Note: For Mark's columns, visit his site: www.makingalife.com