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When we were in the planning stage for a magazine company that I co-founded called Worthwhile, I shared a cab to LaGuardia with an SEC official. As we rode along, we discussed the Worthwhile concept, in particular our company's philosophy that people owe it to themselves to search for happiness in their work. Her skepticism was clear.
"So, are you going to advise people to quit their jobs?" she asked.
"There are a lot of steps before that, but if they're truly miserable, yes," I replied.
She grew increasingly uncomfortable. Finally, she said, "What gives you the um, uh..."
I sensed where this was headed. "Moral authority?" I said, filling in the blank.
"Yes!" she said.
My answer wasn't particularly well formed at the time. I guess I was so surprised that there was moral authority involved in encouraging people to bring more joy to their lives that I offered a weak reply. It all seemed so obvious to me: Do what you need to be happy, right?
I have been thinking about my own life. For 18 years, I was an editor, reporter and columnist for the Wall Street Journal, which might have the best editors of any U.S. newspaper. I had a great job (national small-business editor), got lots of impressed "ohs" at cocktail parties and had a regular weekly TV spot on CNBC.
But in truth, I had begun sleep-walking. I found myself moseying in later and later – never dreading the job, just decreasingly excited about it. Is this all there is, I wondered? Will the next 20 years of work be an emotional wind-down? Can I ever be excited waking up on Monday morning again?
In the years since I left the Journal, I've noticed that it's so common to encourage a friend or relative to lose weight, learn to do something better or exercise more. And it's often the push they need to make the first steps, or continue on their path. But when it comes to something as staggeringly important as our careers, we turn cautious, protective, fearful, even paralyzed.
Now, having created the company and having been an entrepreneur for nearly a decade, I can't be blunt enough: If you are unhappy with your work life, change something. At least start on the path to bringing yourself more fulfillment.
Are you waiting for someone to say "Go for It?" Let me fill the role: Permission Is Granted.
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